Pregnancy handbook

Pregnancy Resources & Medical Guidance

01 Your Journey

Appointment & Vaccine schedule

Here's roughly what to expect, visit by visit. Your provider may add ultrasounds, non-stress tests, or extra visits at any point.

1
Your Next Visit

New OB visit with our Nurse Practitioner

Family medical history review and a physical exam. A first-trimester ultrasound is optional, and optional genetic screening will be offered.

2
16 Weeks

Routine "tummy check"

A standard visit with one of our providers.

3
20 Weeks

Anatomy ultrasound

Anatomic ultrasound, a cervical check, and a visit with a provider — the longest scan of your pregnancy.

4
24 Weeks

Routine "tummy check"

A standard visit with one of our providers.

5
28 Weeks

Routine visit + Tdap vaccine

A routine tummy check. You'll also receive your Tdap vaccine, and Rhogam if you are Rh-negative.

6
30–35 Weeks

Every-other-week visits

Routine tummy checks every other week.

7
36 Weeks

Routine visit + Group B strep culture

A routine tummy check with a Group B strep culture completed.

8
37–40 Weeks

Weekly visits

Weekly routine tummy checks until delivery.

Things to note

At any point, your provider may add ultrasounds, non-stress tests (NSTs), or ask to see you more frequently.

Vaccines

  • Tdap at 28 weeks.
  • RSV between 32–36 weeks during peak season (Sept.–Jan.).
  • COVID & flu anytime — recommended in peak season.
02 What's Safe

Safe medications during pregnancy

Always check with our office before starting anything new. These over-the-counter options are generally considered safe.

Allergies

  • Zyrtec
  • Claritin D
  • Benadryl (oral & cream)
  • Benadryl lotion
  • Calamine lotion
  • Saline nasal spray
  • Eye drops

Cold

  • Robitussin / Robitussin DM
  • Sudafed (after 1st trimester)
  • Actifed / Actifed Plus
  • Throat lozenges
  • Tylenol / acetaminophen
  • Mucinex
  • Saline nasal drops or spray
  • Vicks VapoRub

Heartburn

  • Tums / Titralac
  • Rolaids
  • Pepcid
  • Mylanta
  • Zantac
  • Amphojel
  • Gaviscon
  • Gelusil
  • Maalox
  • Riopan / Magaldrate

Fever & Pain

  • Tylenol / acetaminophen
  • Baby aspirin — only if prescribed

Constipation

  • Citrucel
  • Dialose
  • Doxidan
  • Metamucil
  • Dulcolax
  • Duphalac liquid
  • Fleet enema
  • FiberCon
  • Mineral oil
  • Milk of magnesia
  • Peri-Colace
  • Any OTC fiber

Diarrhea & Hemorrhoids

  • Imodium
  • Kaopectate
  • Preparation H cream or suppository
  • Tucks
  • Dermoplast spray
  • Petrolatum
Avoid aspirin and ibuprofen

Unless your provider has specifically prescribed baby aspirin, skip aspirin and ibuprofen for fever or pain — reach for Tylenol / acetaminophen instead.

03 Fuel For Two

Nutrition during pregnancy

Balance getting enough nutrients for your baby's growth with maintaining a healthy weight for you.

Recommended weight gain

PRE-PREGNANCY WEIGHT
RECOMMENDED GAIN
Underweight (BMI under 20)
30–40 lbs
Normal weight (BMI 20–25)
25–35 lbs
Overweight (BMI 26–29)
15–25 lbs
Obese (BMI over 29)
Up to 15 lbs

Eating for two?

It's a myth to double your intake — think twice as healthy, not twice as much. One baby: about 340 extra calories a day from the second trimester, 450 in the third. Twins: roughly 600 extra calories a day.

Caffeine

Under 200mg a day is considered moderate and hasn't been shown to cause miscarriage or preterm birth. It hides in tea, chocolate, energy drinks, and soda, and can affect sleep and hydration.

Prenatal vitamins

Taking one throughout pregnancy helps cover the vitamins and minerals a healthy pregnancy needs.

Hydration

Drink water throughout the day, not just when thirsty. Aim for 8 to 12 cups a day.

04 Kitchen Guide

Foods to avoid

Meats

  • Raw or undercooked beef or poultry
  • Deli meats
  • Raw seafood or shellfish
  • High-mercury fish (limit tuna to 6 oz/week)
  • Smoked seafood, especially if refrigerated

Also avoid

  • Raw eggs (dressings, mayo, ice cream)
  • Soft cheeses (feta, brie, queso fresco, camembert, blue-veined)
  • Unpasteurized milk or dairy
  • Unwashed produce

Foods that cause gas

  • Broccoli
  • Cabbage
  • Onions
  • Turnips
  • Radishes
  • Dried beans
  • Brussels sprouts
  • Collard greens

High-fat & highly seasoned

  • Gravy & cream sauces
  • Mayonnaise
  • High-fat cheese
  • Whole milk products
  • Regular salad dressings
  • Fried or greasy foods
  • Garlic, onions & peppers
  • Chili powder

Special diets & sweeteners

Vegetarian: get enough protein — legumes, soy, quinoa, wild rice, and buckwheat all help, plus supplementation if needed.

Lactose intolerant: get enough calcium — spinach and fortified orange juice are good sources, plus supplementation if needed.

Artificial sweeteners are fine in pregnancy — limit to one or two servings a day.

05 Staying Active

Exercise during pregnancy

30 minutes daily, or 150 minutes a week, is recommended for uncomplicated pregnancies — walking, jogging, biking, aerobics, yoga, swimming, or weight training. After 20 weeks, avoid lying flat on your back and any high fall-risk activity.

Benefits

  • Reduces back pain
  • Eases constipation
  • May lower risk of gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, or c-section
  • Strengthens heart & circulation
  • Helps with losing baby weight afterward

Precautions

  • Drink water before, during, and after
  • Avoid getting overheated
  • Wear a supportive sports bra, and a belly band later on
  • Avoid standing still or lying flat on your back

Safe examples

  • Walking
  • Swimming or water workouts
  • Yoga or Pilates
  • Stationary cycling

Ask your provider whether your normal routine needs modification.

Talk to your provider first if you have

  • Certain heart or lung disease
  • A cerclage
  • Twins with a risk of preterm labor
  • Placenta previa (after 26 weeks)
  • Ruptured membranes or preterm labor
  • Preeclampsia or high blood pressure
  • Severe anemia

Exercises to avoid

  • Contact sports, or anything risking a hit to the abdomen
  • Activities with a fall risk
  • "Hot yoga" or "hot Pilates"
  • Scuba diving
  • High-altitude activity (over 6,000 ft)
Stop and call us if you notice

Vaginal bleeding, dizziness or faintness, shortness of breath before starting, chest pain, headache, muscle weakness, calf pain or swelling, regular painful contractions, or fluid leaking from the vagina.

06 Testing

Screenings & labs

Most labs are ordered by our office and sent electronically to Rochester Regional, unless your provider specifies otherwise — complete them at any RRH Laboratories location (585-922-5227).

First trimester scan

Looks at your baby's anatomy and includes the NT (nuchal translucency) measurement — a thicker-than-normal reading can flag a chromosomal or cardiac concern worth following up on.

Anatomy scan (20 weeks)

The longest scan of pregnancy — measures the spine, organs, and limbs, and is usually when the baby's sex can be determined.

Second trimester screening

Optional AFP / Quad blood test, ideally at 16–18 weeks. Screens for neural tube and abdominal wall defects, with optional chromosomal screening if NIPT wasn't done.

CPT 82105 · Diagnosis Z36.8A — confirm coverage with insurance or RRH billing.

Labcorp genetic testing

Carrier screening

Screens your DNA for inherited conditions like cystic fibrosis or fragile X. Most carriers are healthy with no family history; couples carrying the same condition have a 25% (1 in 4) chance of an affected pregnancy each time. Includes counseling and a 10–21 day turnaround.

NIPT (MaterniT21)

A noninvasive blood test, available from 9 weeks, screening for chromosomal conditions like Down syndrome — suitable for routine, high-risk, twin, and IVF pregnancies.

07 Coverage

Understanding your insurance

Our billing team verifies coverage and estimates out-of-pocket costs as part of your care — these are informational and may not match your final total; labs, testing, and hospital charges may bill separately.

High deductible plans

We verify your deductible and remaining balance. A $150 payment is due at each ultrasound visit; other amounts follow your specific plan.

Co-pay plans

We verify your co-pay amounts for provider visits, ultrasounds, and delivery. Co-payments are due at the time of the visit.

Change of insurance

Let us know right away if your plan changes during pregnancy so we can re-verify coverage and update your estimate.

08 Whole-Person Care

Mental health services

Pregnancy and postpartum bring real emotional changes — we offer in-house support to help you through them.

Hayley Mandel, LMHC
Hayley Mandel, LMHCLicensed Mental Health Counselor · In-office or telehealth

Person-centered care in a safe, comfortable environment, for support with:

AnxietyDepressionMood swingsBirth trauma / fear of childbirthHormonal stressPostpartum depressionNew-parent support

We'll offer brief check-ins through your pregnancy and again at your six-week postpartum visit, with a referral to Hayley if extra support could help.

Want to talk sooner? Call 585-377-5420 or ask at any prenatal visit.

09 Getting Ready

Preparing for baby

Worth a listen

The Birth Hour, Pregnancy Confidential, Pregnancy Podcast, Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury (Unruffled), Best of Both Worlds, and Solo Parent Society. For dads: Dad Talk, Big Dad Energy, The Modern Dads Podcast, Beardy Dads, and Dad's Guide to Twins.

Worth a read

What to Expect When You're Expecting, Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy, Expecting Better, Your Pregnancy Week by Week, Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, Crib Sheet, Raising Good Humans, and Mayo Clinic's Guide to Your Baby's First Year. For dads: The Expectant Father and We're Pregnant!

Birthing Center virtual tour

Recommended for weeks 25–32 — a free, 45-minute virtual tour of the Twig Birthing Center covering admission, delivery, hospital stay, and discharge, offered twice a month. Register at rochesterregional.org, call 585-922-LINK (5465), or email LINK@rochesterregional.org.

Getting-ready checklist

Nursery

  • Crib and firm, flat mattress
  • Waterproof mattress protectors
  • Crib sheets
  • Changing table
  • Baby monitor
  • White noise machine
  • Humidifier

Diapering

  • Newborn-size diapers
  • Unscented wipes
  • Diaper cream
  • Diaper bag
  • Diaper pail

Wardrobe

  • Onesies
  • One-piece pajamas
  • Front-buttoned sweaters
  • Newborn hats or bows
  • Swaddles
  • Soft, seamless socks

Bath

  • Baby bathtub
  • Baby shampoo
  • Hooded towel
  • Baby lotion
  • Comb & brush set
  • Nail clippers / file
  • Bath thermometer

Feeding

  • Bottles & nipples
  • Bottle brush
  • Breast pump, if nursing
  • Milk storage bags
  • Nursing pads & bras
  • Bibs
  • Feeding pillow
  • Sterilizer & warmer

Travel Gear

  • Stroller
  • Infant car seat
  • Baby carrier
  • Diaper bag with changing pad
  • Car window sunshades
  • Stroller rain cover
10 Hospital Bag

Packing list for delivery

Mom

  • Nursing-friendly pajamas
  • 2 pairs dark, comfortable pants
  • Nursing bra & top
  • Robe + outfit to wear home
  • Slippers / non-slip socks
  • Chapstick & nipple balm
  • Personal pillow & blanket
  • Toiletries
  • Body wash, lotion, deodorant

Dad

  • Pajamas
  • Comfortable outfit
  • Toiletries
  • Shaving gel & razor
  • Slippers, pillow & blanket
  • Boxers & socks

Baby

  • Onesie & sleeper
  • Photo outfit / swaddle
  • Hat or bow
  • Baby socks
  • Going-home outfit + backup
  • Baby blanket
  • Mittens (prevent scratches)
  • Pacifier & car seat

Extras

  • Phone chargers
  • Snacks
  • iPad, books, or cards
  • Nursing pillow
  • ID & insurance cards
  • Small fan
  • Photo props
11 After Baby Arrives

Postpartum care list

Recovery

  • Maternity pads or disposable underwear
  • Sitz bath or peri bottle
  • Perineal spray or ointment
  • Ice packs for swelling

Rest & Sleepwear

  • Comfortable sleepwear
  • Supportive nursing pillows
  • Help arranged for chores
  • Earplugs & eye mask

Clothing & Household Help

  • Loose, comfortable clothing
  • Nursing-friendly tops
  • Belly wrap or support band
  • Cotton underwear
  • Meal train or delivery
  • Childcare for older siblings
  • Pet care arrangements

Emotional Well-being

  • Baby book or memory journal
  • Photo albums or a newborn session
  • A support network
  • Relaxation techniques
  • Postpartum depression resources on hand
  • A journal to track how you're feeling

Nutrition

  • Healthy snacks
  • Plenty of water
  • Meals prepped in advance, or delivery
  • Supplements
  • High-fiber foods

Breastfeeding

  • Nursing bras & breast pads
  • Nipple cream or ointment
  • Breastfeeding pillow
  • Breast pump
  • Lactation consultant's number
12 Recovery Guide

Postpartum instructions

What to expect in the days and weeks after delivery. Tap any topic to expand it.

For the first two weeks, rest as much as possible and focus on baby care. Stairs are fine a few times a day. Gradually increase activity, and avoid strenuous activity and lifting.
It's fine to limit visitors for the first few weeks while you settle in.
"After pains" usually stop within 2–3 days. If they're bothersome, Tylenol every four hours can help.
If breastfeeding, keep nipples clean, dry, and well supported. If bottle feeding, wear a binder or snug bra for about two days, apply ice 3–4 times a day, and limit fluids. Pain medication can be ordered if needed.
Showers, baths, and hair washing are fine as desired. A tub or sitz bath several times a day can ease discomfort from stitches.
Call our office within one week to schedule your six-week appointment.
Continue vitamins and iron for one month — if nursing, continue for as long as you're nursing.
Milk of magnesia can help if needed. If stools stay hard, a mild OTC stool softener works well — no prescription necessary.
Use a sitz bath as needed, and apply surfacaine or nupercainal ointment as necessary — no prescription needed.
Discharge lasts 2–3 weeks, occasionally longer — red at first, then pink, then yellow-gray. Periods typically return at 6–10 weeks if not nursing, or 10–12 weeks if nursing.
Wait until comfortable, but not before six weeks — pregnancy is possible even before your period returns or while nursing. Oral contraceptives can start shortly after delivery; condoms and contraceptive foam are available over the counter in the meantime.
Most people return to work after 6–8 weeks. Travel is fine after two weeks — avoid overexertion, and get out of the car to walk and keep circulation moving.
Steri-strips support healing skin and fall off on their own — remove them after two weeks if they haven't. Some numbness or itching is normal; stitches dissolve on their own. Limit straining for two weeks, then gradually increase activity.
Call our office if you notice

Fever or chills (check your temperature first), excessive or prolonged bleeding, burning with urination, swelling or redness in one area of the breast, or any concerns about depression or anxiety.